The Surprising Way to Handle Jerks Effectively


Being Nice to the People Who Make You Crazy May Be the Most Effective Way to Get What YOU Want When my kids were younger, there was a dynamic that happened between my daughter and one of her brothers. Typical sibling stuff. When he was subconsciously feeling like […]

How to Choose a Coach


You have decided you need help in some part of your personal or professional life and even if the challenge you are facing is emotionally distressing, you don’t think it’s a problem for a therapist. So you decided to look for a coach. A quick Google search reveals […]

Poor Assumptions Kill Relationships


Don’t assume. It makes an ass out of you and me. Sure, it’s a fun phrase, and we’ve all heard it. But how many of us have really given serious attention to the damage assumptions cause in our lives and how to reduce their negative impact? WHAT’S THE […]

The Four Stages of Developing a Life That Feels Great


People decide to try coaching because they are dissatisfied with some area of their life. But most of the time they don’t really know what they need to get from their present state of dissatisfaction to a life that feels great. Even figuring out whether I am the […]